Find your marriage pain point and work on it together.
It could be Money, Sex, Kids, Parenting, Employment, Addictions, Ex Spouses or Family. We all have some pain point that causes friction, and usually these pain points are the root of what drives a happy marriage towards a messy divorce.
What I have learned in ten years of marriage is to identify the issue and work through it. Come to the discussion with the ability to see both sides, seek counseling if needed. But don’t ignore it, don’t dance around it, and don’t think it will go away.
Working through your pain point is not going to be an easy task, it may take years, if not the entire life of the marriage, but keep at it.
TC
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I commend you for your ability to communicate…it isn’t easy for someone like me, but I think over 10 years you learn things from your spouse and you each grow stronger individually and as a couple.